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“The Surge” and the Urge

 

Dear Friends,

In the wake of October 7, American Jewry witnessed an unprecedented surge in engagement with Jewish life. As detailed in a recent JFNA survey reported by eJewishPhilanthropy, among the Jews affiliated with Chabad, 44 % reported deeper involvement in Jewish life since Oct. 7. This can refer to both someone who was already engaged Jewishly but became more so, or someone who was previously uninvolved who has started taking part in Jewish activities. This a higher rate of engagement than any other stream of Judaism….

This surge has not been fleeting. Nearly one year later, a follow-up found that 31% of respondents remain more involved in Jewish communal life than before October 7.

As Mimi Kravetz, JFNA’s chief impact and growth officer, put it, “The Surge has shown staying power… people continue to feel the pain of this moment and… continue to seek connection,” adding that “our community cannot wait—we must step up and respond now”-eJewishPhilanthropy.

Here at Boca Beach Chabad, we're living the surge. As we mark the one-year anniversary of our acquisition at 490 East Palmetto Park Road, the transformation is unmistakable: minyanim are fuller, classes are lively, Shabbat gatherings are rich with warmth, joy and energy. People are coming not from obligation or sorrow—but from a heartfelt urge to reconnect to the G-d of Israel, the Torah of Israel, and the Land of Israel.

This week’s Torah portion, Re’eh, presents a verse that resonates deeply with our times:

“כִּי פָתֹחַ תִּפְתַּח אֶת יָדְךָ לוֹ... נָתוֹן תִּתֵּן לוֹ וְלֹא יֵרַע לְבָבְךָ בְּתִתְּךָ לוֹ”
“You shall surely open your hand to him… you shall surely give him, and your heart shall not be distressed when you give to him.” (Devarim 15:10)

On its surface, this verse teaches us to give generously. Yet, the repetition—“נתון תיתן”—echoes twice, beckoning us to give earnestly and then again. And “ולא יֵרַע לְבָבְךָ” isn’t just about giving without regret—it is about giving not out of discomfort or pity, but out of purpose and love.

This is the very essence of “Noson Titein”—you shall give, and then you shall give again. It calls us to give not only because there is need, but because the moment demands it—from a place of love, purpose, and divine urgency. And the Torah assures us: “V’lo yera levavcha”—let your heart not quiver with regret or pity, but shine with resolve and joy.

As we celebrate our new home’s first anniversary and look ahead to a new year, may our community continue to embody that dual power of the surge and the urge. Let us give of our time, our hearts, and our support—not reluctantly, but joyfully, purposefully, continually. In doing so, we affirm who we are and what we are here to do. Because the times call for nothing less.

Good Shabbos and Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Ruvi New

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The Mezuzah: A Home for Masculine and Feminine Harmony, and the Inner Meaning of ‘Eliam Lev’

 

Dear Friends,

The Mezuzah: A Home for Strength and Nurture

First, a correction. In last week’s article, the name of our new grandson was mistakenly stated. The correct name is Eliam Lev. At the Bris, Ariel, the proud father, beautifully explained the significance of the names. Here’s the gist of what he shared: “Eli” means my G-d — taking personal ownership of our relationship with G-d and recognizing the Divine within me — my soul. “Am” means people, expressing our being part of something greater than ourselves — Am Yisrael - the people of Israel. “Lev” means heart, signifying a deep, internalized and heartfelt connection to G-d and to Am Yisrael.

“Lev” is also etymologically linked to lavi — a young lion. The month of Av is under the mazal, the spiritual energy, of the lion. As a people, we are compared to lions, fiercely defending our land — the masculine energy of strength and protection. The two letters of “Lev” also encapsulate the entire Torah, which begins with a Bet and ends with a Lamed, representing the completeness of our connection to G-d’s word — the feminine energy of internalizing and nurturing the Torah within.

This week, on the 20th of Av, we mark the yahrzeit of Rabbi Levi Yitzchak Schneerson “Reb Levik”, the illustrious father of the Rebbe. His prolific writings reveal profound layers of Torah, particularly through the lens of Kabbalah and gematria (numerology). Here’s an illustration of his unique style and method of teaching, as it pertains to the word mezuzah.

Rabbi Levi Yitzchak notes that the first letter, mem (מ), has the numerical value of 40. This corresponds to the mystical teaching that forty days before a child is conceived, a heavenly voice calls forth the soul destined for embodiment in this world. The mezuzah, placed at the entrance to our homes, thus alludes to the moment when a soul’s earthly journey begins.

The word then splits intriguingly: "zu" (זו) and "zah" (זה). Kabbalistically, zu represents the masculine aspect of the soul — strength, outward movement, conquest. Zah represents the feminine aspect — receptivity, nurturing, and inner development.

The mezuzah affirms that a Jewish home is meant to be a place where these two energies are honored, balanced, and fused. Masculine energy protects and provides structure; feminine energy fills that structure with warmth, care, and soul.

In a home, one partner might focus on protecting and providing — masculine energy. The other might focus on cultivating emotional and spiritual life — feminine energy. In reality, both roles blend, but together they create a complete, harmonious dwelling.

The same is true for our national home, the Land of Israel. The masculine energy is the courage to defend it, the readiness to stand as lions against any threat. The feminine energy is nurturing its soul — building communities, fostering Torah study,and Mitzvah observance - planting beauty and unity, and filling the land with kindness and light.

Every mezuzah on every doorway proclaims this truth: a true home — personal or national — stands strong on the outside and glows with life on the inside. On the 20th of Av, inspired by Rabbi Levi Yitzchak’s teaching and the blessing of a new generation in our family, may we each strengthen both halves of our home and our people — and in doing so, make our lives a dwelling place for the Divine.

And perhaps that is the deeper blessing in the name Eliam Lev: to be a heart (Lev) that fiercely protects like a lion, yet tenderly nurtures from within — a living mezuzah that unites the masculine and feminine energies in perfect harmony.

Good Shabbos and Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Ruvi New 

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Vibing on the Streets of Jaffa: The Music of Belonging

 

Dear Friends,

I have spent many Shabbats in Israel over the years - mostly in Jerusalem, never in Yaffo  (Jaffa).

North Yaffo is where my daughter Chana lives with her husband Ariel and their newborn son Eliam Lev, whose bris last Sunday (Tisha B’av) was the reason for my trip to Israel. The neighborhood is a mash of art galleries (in fact, my daughter lives in a converted art gallery), cafes, apartments, and little boutique stores and businesses of every stripe, all spilling over onto narrow cobblestone streets with names like “Hillel”, “Shamai”, and “Rabbi Chanina ben Dosa”. My daughter lives on “Shimon Hatzadik” street - all named for Talmudic sages.

As cool as it was to walk and vibe with the streets with such illustrious and holy names, the street names seemed more fitting for Mea Shearim (the ultra-orthodox neighborhood in Jerusalem) than for hipster Jaffa. So, while I was looking forward to spending Shabbos with Ahuva, Chana, Ariel, our new grandson, and mechutanim David and Chana Walles, I was a little apprehensive about spending Shabbos in Yaffo where, street names aside, they didn’t seem to promise the Shabbos vibe you feel when you are in Jerusalem. 

My apprehension turned out to be short-lived and quickly abated as Ariel and I entered the Chabad “Hamaor” Shul in Yaffo. Led by the charismatic Shliach, Rabbi Shmaya Hecht, who is also blessed with a beautiful voice, I experienced something unforgettable. As the sun set over the Mediterranean, Jews of every background - Ashkenazi and Sephardi, Chassidic and self-described secular hipsters - gathered to welcome Shabbat with spirited and song-infused services. There was no need for translation or labels; the song did the work. It elevated the prayers, transformed the cultural differences into a harmonious symphony of spirit, and wove us into a single communal voice. The melodies became the common language of our souls.

The songful/soulful experience continued after services at the “Kulam” center, where dozens came together for Shabbat dinner and later the “Shalom Zachor” - traditional first Friday night welcoming of a baby boy before his Bris. 

Let's just say that while perhaps Jerusalem vibes with Shabbos organically, in places like Yaffo, it’s places like the Chabad House that bring the Shabbos vibe to the streets. 

The bris ceremony itself, which took place on Sunday at the shul after Mincha (afternoon services) on Tisha B’av, was infused with song, as the packed shul of family friends and community members, all of whom were on the tail end of 24 hours of fasting, joined together as the Mohel was “doing his thing”, in singing: “V’zakeini L’gadail Banim Uvnai Vanim Chachamim Unvoinim….” - (trans. May I merit to raise generations of children wise, knowing, lovers of Hashem in awe of Hashem, connected to Hashem. And who light up the world with Torah good deeds and service of Hashem). The singing of that particular song was deeply moving and uplifting and captured the sacredness and hopefulness of the moment - a new Jewish child entering the covenant of Abraham, his forefather, continuing a chain thousands of years old. The first of the two names given to the baby - “Eliam Lev” - “El” is one of the names of G-d, Am” means people.. Together, it means the people of G-d,  and speaks to the agency of every Jew, as an ambassador of light to the world.

The Shabbat and Bris experiences brought to mind a story from the early years of Chabad. The third Chabad Rebbe, the Tzemach Tzedek, as a young boy, was deeply gifted in music. Concerned that it might distract from his Torah study, he asked his grandfather, the Alter Rebbe, to take the talent away. The Alter Rebbe refused. “Neginah,” he explained, “is 50% of understanding Torah.” Song isn't a distraction - it's a channel. It opens the heart, softens the ego, and allows Torah to be not just understood but internalized. It transforms knowledge into connection.

This is the essence of this Shabbat - Tu B’Av (the 15th of Av), a day that also speaks in the language of music and unity. In ancient times, the daughters of Jerusalem would go out into the vineyards dressed in white, and they would dance in a circle. The circle was intentional: no top or bottom, no beginning or end - just oneness. Rich and poor, noble and simple - all distinctions were set aside. The dance was accompanied by music and joy, and in that moment, class and status dissolved. What remained was the shared rhythm of the Jewish soul.

There is a message here that resonates with our community today. In a recent survey, one response stood out: we want more music. Not just entertainment, but spiritual experience—something that opens the heart and connects us to each other and to G-d.

We heard you. And that’s why, beginning this year, we’re launching new music-infused programming - anchored by Soul Vibes, a monthly gathering where live music meets Torah, melody meets meaning. Imagine a kumzitz meets masterclass. A circle where ideas and melodies move freely, and no one stands above another. It’s about more than programming. It’s about creating spiritual spaces where the soul can sing.

Just like the girls in the vineyards, just like the circle of song around a Shabbat table in Yaffo, we’re reclaiming music as a sacred connector. Whether you know the words or not, whether you’re deeply observant or just beginning to explore—when the music begins, we’re all in the same circle.

This Tu B’Av, and this year ahead, let’s not just study Torah - let’s dance with it. Let’s sing it. Let’s create spaces where hearts open, souls rise, and everyone belongs.

Mark your calendar now for Thursday, September 25 and join us for the Soul Vibes High Holidays experience as we explore deeper meanings of the Rosh Hashanah prayers and sing songs from the liturgy that are bound to take your High Holiday experience higher and higher……


Good Shabbos and Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Ruvi New 

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