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The Last Hostage, and the Song That Refuses to Die

 

The splitting of the sea, the downfall of Egypt, and the birth of Jewish song, the Torah portion of B’shalach read this week, is action packed.  But beneath the drama lies a quieter, enduring lesson—the power of words and the power of faith, and how deeply intertwined the two truly are.

I was reminded of this recently in a very ordinary setting. I had breakfast with a friend who shared something subtle but important. Something I had once said—a tongue-in-cheek comment about myself, entirely non-malicious and not hurtful to anyone (but me) —was overheard by someone else and taken at face value, rather than in the lighthearted way it was intended. Without tone or context, even self-directed words can be misunderstood.

It was a helpful reminder of how delicate words are. Even when there is no ill intent, and even when the comment is about ourselves, words can land very differently than we imagine. How careful we must be—not only with what we say, but with how it may be heard.

That sensitivity to words takes on far deeper meaning in moments of life and loss.

A number of years ago, Ahuva’s uncle passed away suddenly—just one week before his daughter’s wedding. The family experienced something almost unimaginable: they went straight from sitting shiva to celebrating the wedding.

This week, in the study of the Daily Rambam (Maimonidies), we learned a striking halachah/law.The Rambam teaches that Moses instituted two parallel seven-day cycles in Jewish life: seven days of mourning for loss, and seven days of rejoicing—Sheva Brachot—after a wedding.

The Rebbe highlighted the profound message embedded in this structure: the Torah gives full space to grief—but it insists that grief is not the final word. Mourning gives way to joy. Sometimes that transition takes time. And sometimes, life demands that it be immediate—rising straight from shiva into marriage.

During the shiva, I shared this thought with the bride. Years later, she reminded me of that moment. She told me that those words—shared quietly, without fanfare—gave her the strength to do the impossible: to rise from the raw pain of losing her father and walk forward into her wedding.

What felt like a simple insight in the moment became enduring strength. Another reminder of how words—sometimes spoken almost in passing—can leave an indelible imprint.

That same powerful juxtaposition of grief and faith was on display this week with the discovery of Ron Gvili, the last remaining hostage. In an extraordinarily moving scene, the soldiers who found him did not stand in silence. They joined hands in a circle and sang Ani Maamin—“I believe with complete faith in the coming of Mashiach.”

It was not denial of pain. It was defiance of despair.

Those words gave voice to the Jewish experience of exile itself: Jews hated, slaughtered, kidnapped—and yet holding fast to the belief that this reality will end. That Mashiach will come. That the world will know peace—peace within itself, peace with the Jewish people, and peace in our homeland, the Land of Israel.

This brings us to the heart of Parshat B’shalach.

When the sea splits, the Torah says, “Az yashir Moshe”—Then Moshe will sing. Strikingly, the verse is written in the future tense. Our sages explain that this alludes to Techiyat HaMeitim, the resurrection of the dead. The song at the sea was not only gratitude for past salvation—it was a declaration of future redemption.

Faith is not passive. Faith has a voice.

This message resonates even more deeply this week as we also commemorated Yud Shvat—the day marking the passing of the Previous Rebbe and the moment when the Rebbe formally assumed leadership.

In his first maamar/Chassidic Discourse, Basi L’Gani, the Rebbe articulated the mission of our generation: to restore the world to what it once was—G-d’s garden. Not to escape the world, but to transform it. To bring the Divine Presence back into the very places from which it had been driven away through human failure.

A garden is not restored through grand gestures alone. It is cultivated patiently—through careful speech, thoughtful actions, and faith expressed again and again. A careless word can damage that garden. A word of encouragement, perspective, or belief can restore it.

Parshat B’shalach teaches us that words are never neutral. They either advance the world toward being G-d’s garden—or delay its restoration.

A comment spoken lightly—even about ourselves—can echo beyond its moment. A word shared at the right time can carry someone from grief to joy. And a song of faith, sung at the edge of loss, can split seas that still lie ahead.

May we choose our words with care, speak faith even when it feels fragile, and take our part in restoring the world to what it was always meant to be—a place of harmony, holiness, and peace.

And may we soon merit the day when Az yashir becomes present tense once again, with the coming of Mashiach, speedily in our days.

Good Shabbos and Shabbat Shalom
Rabbi Ruvi New

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BE LIKE MIKE

Dear Friends,

Shabbos ends, and with a cup of wine to keep some Shabbos energy in flow, a fragrance soul booster for some aromatic healing, and a candle to help navigate the dark spaces of life, we settle into a new week. The beautiful Havdallah ceremony helps to ease the transition from the sanctity and serenity of Shabbos, offering a soft landing into the new week.

But when a week starts off with a crash landing of shocking and unexpected news, you really gotta tap into the Havdallah energy moving forward.

The first message to light up my phone on Saturday night was of the sudden passing of my dear friend Michael Ackerman A’H on Shabbos morning. Ahuva and I rushed over to his home, where his wife Susan was trying to deal with the reality of her sudden loss. Per Jewish law, burial should take place at the earliest possible time after death, to allow the soul to begin the next phase of its journey. Delaying the funeral is sort of like keeping the soul delayed in the airport terminal or on the tarmac when all it wants to do is fly home.

Arrangements were made for a 3:00 PM Sunday funeral, giving enough time for his daughter Brooke and son in law Roi to fly in Sunday morning from NY. Michael’s son, Danny hopped on a plane in Israel late Sat night and was due to arrive early Sunday morning. Credit and Yasher Koach to Neshama funeral home and the South Florida Jewish Cemetery in W Boynton, for working so quickly, ensuring that the funeral could take place in a timely manner.

This week's Torah portion of Bo records the Exodus from Egypt, and how it happened in great haste. Why the rush?? We had been there for 210 years. Couldn’t the exodus have happened in a calmer, more “chill” (as my kids would put it) manner?

In his memoir of his horrific abuse of the legal system, Sholom Rubashkin describes the moment he was called to the wardens office on the last day of Chanukah in 2017.

President Trump had just pardoned him and commuted his draconian 27 year sentence. After twelve years in prison he was a free man. He rushed to his cell, packed up his stuff and went to wait for his wife to pick him up.

When the moment of freedom comes, you're out of there - in a rush, no time to waste. Once the soul has left the body, it’s in a rush to get home, and we should not interfere with that, but help facilitate it.

Highly sensitive souls live life in a rush, with a sense of urgency. They are the ones who get things done, without procrastination. Perhaps it’s driven by a sub-conscience sense that life has a limited shelf life, so if you can make it happen, make it happen today. For others the sense of urgency is born of idealism and responsibility. The world is a mess and I gotta do something about it !

Such was Michael. A tireless activist, who wore his Jewish heart and love for Israel  on his sleeve. A sleeve that he rolled up and channeled into action. His latest cause was the Florida Stands with Israel license plate project. Relentlessly, he stood for hours at community events all over South Florida encouraging people to sign up. Motivated, driven, passionate, methodical, organized, urgent, because defending Israel and Israel pride was a matter of urgency.

Michael did not live in a space of complacency. The status quo was never good enough. And at the core of it all, is the fact that we - like the Jews in Egypt - are still in exile. And one minute in exile is a minute too long. Because for someone, somewhere, it’s a minute of pain, of suffering, of hatred, of hunger, of jealousy, of war.

For Michael that was unacceptable.

Michael’s legacy lulls us out of our own comfort zones and challenges us to do our part to bring the world into redemption, with urgency, alacrity and haste!

Y’hay Zichro Baruch. May his memory be for a blessing. And a calling.

Good Shabbos and Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Ruvi New 

A Magical Night of Music and Mission

 

Dear Friends,

Last night was one of those rare evenings when music, memory, and mission fused into a single, unforgettable moment of geulah—redemption in real time. Music has the power not only to move us, but to mobilize us; not only to comfort, but to call us forward.

The concert was held in honor of my mother’s yartzeit and marked the shloshim of the Kedoshim (holy souls) of Sydney. Both remembrances converged into one shared message: when darkness strikes, the Jewish response is not retreat—but revelation. Light does not deny pain; it transforms it.

For me personally, the night carried an added layer of emotion and gratitude. To sing the songs I grew up with around my mother’s and father’s Shabbos table—songs that were woven into the soundtrack of my life—together with their composer, Yossi Green, was nothing short of surreal. These melodies have accompanied me and countless people all over the world, through decades of tribulation and jubilation, struggle and growth, family and community gatherings, touching our souls in profound ways, evoking a deep sense of connection to our higher and better spiritual selves. To now sing them with Yossi, shoulder to shoulder, felt like a full-circle moment—past and present harmonizing into one voice. And to sing Yossi’s composition, “Ima” - “mother”, accompanied by a collage of footage of my mother, I think made everyone present feel the loving embrace of their own mothers.

Cantors Aryeh Leib Hurwitz and Yaacov Young joined Yossi for a rousing rendition of Retzeih, as well as for a beautiful individual duet with Yossi, each one filling the room and filling hearts with their powerful melodic voices. 

As the final notes were due to be struck up, the screens lit up with powerful video messages about the launch of the Souls of Sydney Project from Rabbi Yoram Ulman of Bondi—Rabbi Eli Schlanger’s father-in-law—and from Rabbi Shmuli Schlanger, Eli’s brother. Their words were not speeches; they were charges. They reminded us that the greatest tribute to a holy soul is not silence or sorrow—but continuity. Not memory alone, but mitzvah.

And then came the final medley—four songs, one journey.

It began with Yossi’s very first composition, “Kol B’Ramah” — “the sound heard on high from Rachel’s tears”. A cry that rises from the deepest place of loss. Rachel weeping for her children. The ache of Jewish history echoing across generations. It is the voice that cries when fifteen innocent and holy souls are massacred in Sydney. It is the voice of pain and tears that G-d promises Rachel are not in vain. 


It is G-d’s voice echoed in the words of the next song of the final medley:  “Hineni Rofeh Lach”: So says Hashem, "I have heard your prayers and I have seen your tears, and I will heal you”.

But we wonder, after 2000 years of exile and suffering, is there really an end to it all? Then the music lifted us into “Anovim” — to redemption.

“When the King Moshiach will appear
When King Moshiach will be here
On the Temple rooftop he will stand ,
His voice echoing throughout the land
All of Israel will hear him declare

My humble people
The time has come
The time for your redemption is upon you
And if you can’t believe it’s true
After all that you’ve been through
behold my light that’s shining unto you”

Yes, redemption will come, when we behold the light that shines unto us all - the light first and foremost of Unity, beautifully captured in the final song: 

And finally, we arrived at Forever One
“Forever one, we will go far
It’s not I am but who you are
We need just to reveal it
Need to try and feel it
For never are we alone
We have each other as our own
Nothing can divide us for we are
Forever One.

The declaration that no matter where we come from, no matter how fractured the world may feel, the Jewish people are—and will always remain—one. One heart. One mission. One destiny.

That is why the Jewish response to darkness has never been silence. It has always been song, mitzvah, and unity.

This is the heartbeat of the Souls of Sydney Project. To transform tears into healing, healing into redemption, and redemption into unity—through action.

The Souls of Sydney Project is a call to you to be a  Souls of Sydney Mitzvah Project Ambassador.

Here is the mission, clear and simple:

For men and boys:
Commit to putting on tefillin daily—or commit to inspiring someone else to do so. For anyone who needs them, the Souls of Sydney Project will provide a beautiful pair of tefillin at no cost. No barriers. No excuses. Just action.

For women and girls:

Sign up to receive Shabbat Candle Lighting Kits, specially designed to be small enough to fit into a pocketbook. The vision is powerful in its simplicity: every woman carrying light with her—ready, at any moment, to share it with another woman or girl and help her usher Shabbat into her life.

This is how souls are elevated.
This is how loss becomes legacy.
This is how tragedy is transformed into redemption.

In Parshas Va’eira, G-d tells Moshe that redemption begins quietly—one act of faith at a time—until suddenly, the impossible begins to move. Last night, we felt that movement. Music opened our hearts. Memory deepened our resolve. And now, the mission demands response.

We are not asking you to attend another event.
We are asking you to become the event.

Carry the light. Share the mitzvah. Be an ambassador of hope.
Let the souls of Sydney live on—through your hands, your voice, and your action.

Sign up now at: www.BocaBeachChabad.com/SOS
Instagram: @souls.of.sydney

Good Shabbos and Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Ruvi New 

 

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My Caracas Raid

 

Headlining the news this week was the U.S. raid in Caracas, a dramatic operation aimed at the inner circle of the Maduro regime. Images of power, secrecy, and a superpower confronting a defiant ruler filled the news cycle. Caracas—once again—was the setting for a clash between moral authority and entrenched power.

Those headlines transported me back nearly four decades, to a very different kind of “raid” in the very same city.

In May of 1987, I arrived in Caracas, Venezuela, as one of twelve yeshiva student-emissaries sent by the Rebbe for two years of study and outreach. The first Spanish word we learned was “¿Te pusiste…?” — “Did you put on…?”
You can guess the next word: tefillin.
The day after we arrived, armed with one Spanish verb and a lot of enthusiasm, we were already in the local Jewish high school asking students if they had put on tefillin.

Within weeks of landing, we were already running a summer camp—despite possessing, at best, extremely rudimentary Spanish. The kids had a blast. They also took full advantage of our linguistic helplessness.

Starving for English reading material, a year into our two-year Shlichut, one of the guys made an “illicit” discovery: Caracas had an English-language daily newspaper, The Daily Journal. Each week, one of us would sneak a copy back to yeshiva—pure contraband by yeshiva standards.

It was the summer of 1988, and one notice in the paper caught my eye: a reception at the residence of the Australian Consul, commemorating the bicentennial of Australia—200 years since its founding.

At that time, the Rebbe was speaking passionately about the Seven Noachide Laws—the universal moral code for all humanity—and the Jewish obligation to encourage their observance among the nations of the world. For most of history, Jews had been subjects of empires, rarely influencers of them. The Rebbe insisted that this era was over. Jews must no longer see themselves as tolerated guests in history, but as moral leaders responsible for the spiritual health of civilization.

Part of this campaign involved encouraging governments—federal, state, and municipal—to formally recognize the Noachide Laws as the foundation of a just and ethical society.

When I saw the announcement about the consul’s reception, it struck me: this is where diplomats gather; this is where ideas travel. An opportunity.

So on the appointed evening, Mendy Gansburg, a fellow student, and I donned our best suits, climbed into our thoroughly unimpressive car, and headed for the consul’s upscale neighborhood. As we approached, the streets were lined with limousines delivering dignitaries to the event.

And then came our turn.

Our battered vehicle rolled into the grand circular driveway, drawing looks of disbelief from anyone who saw our “limo.” We handed the keys to the valet and approached the front door, where the consul and his wife were greeting guests.

Two bearded, hatted figures, party crashers who were clearly not on the guest list.

The consul and his wife did their best to conceal their shock. I introduced myself confidently as the “representative of Australian Jewry” for this important occasion. The consul hesitated, then smiled politely. Encouraged, I asked if, as the representative of Australian Jewry, I might say a few words.

He gently explained that this was a poolside cocktail reception, not a formal dinner, and there would be no speeches.

So instead, we spent much of the evening in conversation with the American Consul, discussing—among other things—the Noachide Laws. That conversation would later have unexpected consequences for one of the Israeli students among us, who had repeatedly been denied a U.S. visa—but that’s a story for another time.

The next morning, we opened The Daily Journal. There was an article about the previous night’s reception—complete with a photograph. And standing there, unmistakably, were the two bearded, hatted raiders, chatting with the American Consul.

Our raid had made the news.

Which brings us back to Parshat Shemot.

The book of Shemot opens with the ultimate confrontation between power and morality. Pharaoh, the ruler of the world’s greatest empire, enslaves an entire people. Enter Moshe, armed with nothing but a Divine mandate, walking straight into the palace to demand justice.

Pharaoh and Maduro are separated by millennia, ideology, and circumstance—but they share a common trait: rulers who confuse power with permanence, control with legitimacy. Shemot teaches us that no regime—however entrenched—can withstand a moral challenge grounded in G-d’s truth.

Sometimes that challenge looks like plagues and miracles.
Sometimes it looks like diplomats and declarations.
And sometimes, it looks like two yeshiva students crashing a cocktail party in Caracas.

The lesson of Shemot is that Jews are not meant to stand on the sidelines of history. We are meant to enter the palace, speak with courage, and remind the world—again and again—that power is temporary, but morality is eternal.

And every now and then, even a small raid can echo something much larger.

Good Shabbos and Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Ruvi New 

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Living Light

 

Dear Friends,

This week’s parsha, Vayechi, offers a quiet but profound truth. Though it begins with Yaakov Avinu’s passing, its name means “and he lived.” The Torah is teaching us that true life is not confined to a moment in time. A life lives on when its values are transmitted, when its light is carried forward, when what was kindled continues to burn.

Before Yaakov leaves this world, he gathers his children and blesses them. He does not withdraw from life; he plants himself within it - embedding faith, purpose, and destiny into the next generation. Vayechi teaches that the Jewish mission is not escape from the world, but infusion - ensuring that spiritual light becomes part of lived reality.

This is the deeper meaning of Chanukah as well. Though the candles were put away two weeks ago, their work is not done. Chanukah is not about light that flares and fades, but light that endures. The word Torah - whose very root is or, light - is the vessel that carries Chanukah’s flame forward, illuminating not only holy moments, but ordinary days as well.

That is why the welcoming of a new Torah this Sunday - the Lance and Ilana Kaplan Torah - is such a powerful continuation of Chanukah’s message. A Torah is not simply written; it is escorted, embraced, and danced into the heart of a community. Like the two bris milahs our community celebrated this week, it proclaims that holiness is not meant to hover above the world, but to be engraved within it - into parchment, into flesh, into life itself.

And this idea takes on even deeper resonance as we look ahead to January 25th, when we will gather for a community concert that will also mark the shloshim of the Sydney massacre. Tragedy seeks to extinguish light. Torah and mitzvot answer by increasing it. When Jews come together in faith, in song, and in unity, we affirm that the Jewish spirit cannot be silenced.

Vayechi reminds us that even after loss, life continues - vayechi. Light continues. Meaning continues.

We invite you to be part of that living chain: to dance with the Torah this Sunday as we welcome a new source of light into our community, and to stand together on January 25th as we honor memory with music, faith, and resolve. When we carry Torah forward - together - its light does not fade. It lives.

Good Shabbos and Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Ruvi New

PS - I want to share something that changed how I think about Israel’s security. 

Like you, I've followed the debates—what Israel should give up, what it should hold, who to trust, when to act. Smart people disagree. The arguments go in circles.

A newly published film presents a Jewish values-based framework that brings life-saving clarity to the complex dilemmas Israel faces. Drawing on a principle from Laws of Shabbat, the Lubavitcher Rebbe articulated a doctrine for Israel's security decisions—one he spoke about hundreds of times over decades, to Israel’s prime ministers, generals, and journalists.

The film unpacks this teaching using satellite imagery of Israel’s geography, archival footage, and in-depth analysis. It shows how the framework applies to the dilemmas Israel faces right now: Which threats are existential? When does compromise make sense? What’s negotiable and what isn't?

It doesn't tell you what to think—it shows you how to think through these impossible choices, and how to make the path to peace and security very attainable.

52 minutes. I think you'll find it valuable.

Watch here at https://youtu.be/Z6wtKoUcioY?si=-S_csT3SV04OYcow 

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